Life - The Way I Create It

Life is like an unmelted piece of gold served before your eyes. Sparkly and shiny. The one who owns it is the master. Usually the rich and hails from a pool of famous genes. The ones who don’t, works hard for it. It is the cause of glamour and popularity. It is also the cause for jealousy and envy Life is as such; like an unmelted gold waiting to be molded, or shall I say to be lived. Every nook and corner is dealt with delicately, in the best interest of the owner. What happens if there is fault in the making of that particular gold earring or chain or ring? Do we throw it? No, we simply unmelt and remake it. What if its life? Every road crossed, every path taken, there is always a rough ride and bumps. Can we stop and restart? Never! Instead every misfortune is taken in as an experience or an opportunity to smoothen our journey as we go, to cross every hurdle. You be the guide, the pilot, the captain of the ship! Sail your boat to your destination. You can if you believe it. Never let anyone tell you, you can’t. Don’t let them decide. Just remember, any problem can be solved. Talk. They (whoever it is involved) are also humans. There are too many good things out there in the world, hence there is no time for regrets, brooding, and feeling sorry. Seize the day and live every moment of it. Say sorry if it is your mistake. Be thankful for all the smallest tiniest reasons, for it may be less important, BUT it is still important. Don’t be judgmental. Get to know the person. Live life to the fullest each day!

P/S: Quoting my mum " Never say die before you try!"

Onion=Me

Happy April's Fool!* not to sure if people actually wish, but i do, makes me happy* Did not play a prank on anyone though.A friend tried, but it went unfruitful=) Anyway, wanted to share something very interesting from my psychiatry class. My lecturer said that we are all like onions! Ring a bell??? Yup, that's exactly how Shrek described himself to donkey! We are made from layers and layers of extremely thin skin that makes up a big fat ball- the onion! Depending on which layer that is being peeled, we portray our emotions! See, no one is perfect, as much as we try to maintain our cool and walk around like nothing bothers us ( which as a matter of fact they often do) just that it is all stored up under this so called thin layers of the onion, just waiting to blow up one day when someone steps on the trigger button! At times its better to let go off your frustration to a close friend at that very moment than bottling it up, as it will only be disastrous for us in the end. So, that's basically a philosophical theory, upto us on how we want to perceive it.As for me, I absolutely agree with Shrek!By the way, finally got my net connection, but kinda slow, and as usual there are just so many things to pen down but time is my major problem now! Will try to find the time though, till then, wishing you a blessed day and love you all!

Life Is Like A Box Of Chocolates

Aloha all! Well, the phrase or rather the famous movie title just cross my mind " Khabhi Khushi Khabhi Gham", and to think over it, you will realize how true it is. Yeh zindagi bhi kitna complicated hai! At times the sorrow seeps into the soul, the next excitement and happiness. Quite balanced I would say. But than again the art of controlling the emotions or the after effect of the sorrowness and happiness is the very important essence of life. I remembered a friend who once told me that life is like a box of chocolates, which is absolutely true! Hey, common don't forget that there are dark chocolate, bitter chocolate besides the sweet ones.So, you get it, we are again talking about balance. Okay,I think much have been said about the ying and yang concept already. Hope you don't find the analogy to be too complicated though! Back to me, I spent my three days break chilling with friends. Hmm, more of a couple and me. In short, it was fun and akward at the same time. There are moments when I wish the earth would just swallow me, and than there were times I wish I was an ostrich , hoping to stick my head into the sand. Then, there were moments, I actually appreciated the presence of television in the eating outlets, ahh, what a wonder they are to keep yourself busy while the two of them can have time for themselves. So,yah, that's pretty much about myself. Have you wondered why there are times you could just be yourself when you are around certain people but not completely yourself around some other people. I used to wonder. I just think it is the fact that we are worried how people would perceive us and this controls the way we behave.